Long time no posts!!.. haha. i just don't feel like posting..
hindi inspired eh.. haha, just kidding ;p
well, i'm formulating this new habit of making people miss me. unfortunately, only very few really do miss me.. so far..
and i'm honestly hoping someone out there would notice my
disappearance [haha..] hindi ako maglo-load for at least 5 days, if i can last that long. i just couldn't resist from texting him so i'd give myself a little self-torture. and yun na nga, i want to know if he'll miss me or he wouldn't mind. kung ano man sa dalawa ang kalabasan then be it. di ako magpapaapekto. di ko naman mapipilit ang hindi talaga pwede eh. diba?
speaking of MISSING people. we had a discussion today about the same topic.
pinatatamaan talaga ko palagi ng gen psych eh. lagi na lang sumasapul sakin yung mga topics. kung kelan ko ginawa saka naman na-discuss sa class. ayun, our prof gave us a technique of making people miss you. hindi naman 'to bago "classical conditioning" nga tawag dito eh. marami na talagang gumagawa ng technique na 'to and they say it works. for some syempre hindi talaga kaya. here are the steps...
1. get someone to condition (syempre dapat may tao kang tatargetin)
2. look for something that you'll do ONLY to him/her (kunwari sesendan mo sya ng text message with a little something, like a smiley na sayo lang nya makikita and the like, and make sure sa kanya mo lang gagawin yun)
3. be consistent with that little something and most especially with the time (like texting him/her every 7 pm sharp - simple inconsistency daw nakakaapekto na. to make it visible, as much as possible, stable ka talaga sa time para walang confusion)
4. do this for at least 1 or 2 weeks (here is the conditioning process - maaasiwa or maiirita sya sa umpisa pero eventually masasanay na sya hanggang umabot sa point na tuwing makakareceive sya ng message sa time na 7 pm nagkaka-idea na sya na ikaw yun)
5. to test it, cut the habit (bigla kang mag-stop sa pagtetext, gawin mong inconsistent yung time, or alisin mo yung
little something)
--> if your target started feeling confused or he/she started asking why you changed that means you were successful (syempre since nasanay sya hahanap-hanapin nya yun pag-nagbago or nawala. kung wala namang nangyari kahit tinigil mo na, that only means he/she didn't really care, wasted effort kumbaga..)
--> meron namang instances (mostly common to those who find it difficult to move on) na tinigil mo yung ginagawa mo for at least 2 months, then nung ginawa mo ulit, like same time and same context, maaalala nya pa rin. yun bang kahit 2 months na eh naaalala ka pa rin nya tuwing makakareceive sya ng message at 7 pm.
o diba angsaya. haha. merong mga walang napapala dito, merong nagiging successful, meron ding nasasaktan lang pag nalalamang wala talaga silang chance sa gusto nila. hehe. pero sabi ng prof namin kahit daw sa aso mo 'to gawin madalas nagwowork. ito rin daw yung madalas na strategy ng guys para madali nilang makuha yung girl, hanggang si girl naman ay mahirapan nang magmove-on.
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okay, enough about that. i got home around 6 30 pm, turned on the tv. then i saw chris cayzer being interviewed by bianca gonzales in studio 23. he plugged his album entitled
"chris cayzer". bianca also asked him if he's single. he said
he's super single. (nice! single na, super pa.. san ka pa?.. haha) he said he had a relationship before and it lasted for 2 1/2 years. the girl broke up with him because she wanted him to pursue his singing career (what a reason). so she composed a song for her, he sang a very little part of it. for you to hear it, buy his album (malamang).. oh and bianca asked him of his ideal girl. wala siyang sinabi basta daw may initials na PG, with a sign of joke from his face. initials ata yun ng girl nya.
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about school, we're beginning to feel the pressure with the schoolworks. we were already having few homeworks in some subjects. and we still have to finish with the reporting in gen psych, with the hard and soft copy of the group's report placed in a clearbook, all due next tuesday. plus the scrapbook as our project in rizal.
we'll be having our finals on
october 9-12, plus 1 more week for the completion of the requirements and signing of clearance. then sembreak 'til
november 6.
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i also changed my layout.. felt lazy of making my own though, so i just got one from blogskins..
